Top 5 Myths About Power of Attorney (And the Truth You Need to Know)
Power of Attorney (POA) is one of the most misunderstood legal tools. Many people delay or avoid creating a POA because of common myths — and this can lead to serious complications when decisions need to be made. Today, we’re busting the top 5 myths that keep people unprepared, so you can start thinking ahead and take control before it’s too late.
Myth #1: “I don’t need a POA until I’m older.”
Truth: Incapacity can happen at any stage of life — and it isn’t always permanent. Accidents, illness, or medical events can occur unexpectedly. Sometimes incapacity is temporary, like being sedated during a procedure or hospitalized with a serious illness. Even in these situations, someone may need authority to manage your finances or make decisions according to your instructions. Planning ahead ensures your preferences are respected no matter your age.
Myth #2: “If I’m married, my spouse can automatically decide for me.”
Truth: Being married, or having family, does not give automatic legal authority. Banks, hospitals, and other institutions require formal documentation. Without a POA, even your spouse may face delays in acting on your behalf. Thoughtful planning allows you to designate people you trust, in ways that suit your preferences, while reducing potential conflicts.
Myth #3: “A POA means giving up control.”
Truth: A POA does not take control away. You remain in charge while you are capable, and you can specify exactly what powers your Attorney has and when those powers begin. In some cases, you may provide instructions for routine tasks to be handled under your guidance, while retaining authority over more important decisions. A carefully structured POA gives you flexibility, clarity, and peace of mind.
Myth #4: “It’s too expensive or complicated.”
Truth: Creating a POA is generally far less costly and complex than going through a court-appointed guardianship or trusteeship later. Whether you choose a simple arrangement or a more comprehensive plan, putting your instructions in place now saves time, money, and stress — and ensures your wishes are clearly followed. Options can be tailored to suit your preferences, giving you as much or as little involvement as you want.
Myth #5: “I can just wait and deal with it later.”
Truth: Waiting is the riskiest choice. Without a POA, your family may face delayed decisions, legal disputes, or months of court involvement — at both an emotional and financial cost. Planning ahead allows you to clarify what matters most, who can act on your instructions, and under what circumstances. Even simple preparations can prevent unnecessary stress and uncertainty for the people you care about.
How Personal Trustee Services of Manitoba Helps
The only way to truly avoid confusion, conflict, and worry is through planning, and that’s where we can help.
At Personal Trustee Services of Manitoba, our Power of Attorney and Personal Planning services are built to keep you in control. You choose the level of support, how much authority is given, and when that authority begins, immediately, at a later time, or only after a specific triggering event.
We offer:
• One-time POA and Personal Planning — designed to build a POA and include your Attorney (friend or family member) in your Personal Planning, so that you and your Attorney can self-manage your Plans.
• POA and Personal Planning with Ongoing Advisory Support — so you and your family have guidance, and a neutral person to help mitigate conflicts and make sure your Plans are followed.
• Professional Attorney Services — we can act as your attorney, providing reliable decision-making according to your instructions if you are ever unable to act for yourself.
Our approach reduces uncertainty and prevents family conflict by making sure your wishes, values, and preferences are clearly documented. You remain in charge — we provide the structure, expertise, and options to suit your preferences, so everything works the way you intended, when you need it most.